I've taken pretty hard hits...
I was 17, coming out of highschool... i worked overtime, about 65 hours to pay fora new apartment with my highschool sweetheart, i paid the rent, electric, cable, EVERYTHING, for months while he moved from shitty job to shitty job....
turns out he was a cheating prick.
but never will i stoop to their level. in order to keep my pride, i moved on, and kept my head high, without leveling with him and turning into a bitch, and taking revenge.... to fuck with someones life, THAT HARD... i dunno. i dont think it can be justified.
I took my lumps, i moved on; a smarter more experienced person. I got to keep my ethics in tact, and i find strength in that.
people need to learn they arent the center of the universe. people cheat. people fuck up... MOST people are assholes.... and to stoop to low levels to get revenge isnt exactly the best way to go about things.....